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Divorce Questions Women Often Ask – Answered
Can I change back to my maiden name? What happens to our pets? Will people judge me?
When you’re thinking about divorce, the questions that pop into your head aren’t always about law. They’re about your kids, your home, your money, and even your friendships. Here are some of the questions women ask us most often, with clear, easy answers.
How long does a divorce take?
The whole thing takes at least 6 months. This is because the Court makes you wait 20 weeks after you first apply before you can move to the next step, and then another 6 weeks before you can finish.
Will divorce affect my children?
Getting divorced does not change the fact that you are their mum. If you and your ex agree on when the children will be with each of you, you can write that down and make it official with the court. That way, your children know what to expect and arguments are less likely later.
What happens to our pets?
Pets feel like family, and many women worry about them. The law treats pets like property, but in real life most families decide who the pet lives with or even share the care. If you can’t agree, a judge could decide, but it’s usually better if you work it out yourselves.
What happens to the house if I can’t afford the mortgage on my own?
If you can’t pay for the house by yourself, there are a few choices. The house might be sold and the money shared. One of you might buy the other’s share. When children are young, sometimes one parent stays in the house until they older.
Will I have enough money to live on?
Money is a big worry in divorce. Divorce by itself does not split money, houses, or pensions. To be safe, you need something called a financial order. This is a paper from the court that makes your money plan official. Without it, your ex could come back years later and ask for more.
Can I change back to my maiden name?
Yes. Once the divorce is finished, you can change back to your maiden name if you want to. Some women do this straight away, while others keep the same name as their children. It’s your choice.
Can my ex stop me being friends with his family?
No. You can choose who you stay friends with. Sometimes women stay close to their ex’s family, and sometimes they don’t. Do what feels right and healthy for you.
What if my ex is angry and makes things hard?
You can still move forward. You don’t need your ex’s permission to get divorced. Even if he refuses to take part, the law lets you carry on. It might take longer, but you can still get it done.
What if we want to get back together after divorce?
It happens. If you and your ex decide you want to try again, you can. If you choose to marry again, you just need a new marriage certificate, the same as any other couple.
Do I need to go to court to get divorced?
Most people who use Quickie Divorce never go to court. You usually only have to go if you and your ex really can’t agree about money or children.
Will people judge me for being divorced?
Lots of women worry about this. But divorce is common now, and most people understand that staying in an unhappy marriage isn’t healthy. You have a right to be happy. Many women find they feel stronger after divorce.
What support is there for me?
Divorce can feel scary, but you don’t have to do it alone. At Quickie Divorce, our team will guide you through each step and answer your questions with care. We know every person’s story is different, and we’re here to help you move forward.
✨ At Quickie Divorce we believe every woman deserves clear answers, a fair process, and the chance to feel secure about the future.
