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Recognising and Escaping from Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is on the rise. Figures released by the Crown Prosecution Service have revealed that the number of spouses prosecuted for acts of domestic violence has more than doubled in the past five years. Men remain the main perpetrators with 55,000 successfully convicted in 2010 compared with 28,000 in 2005. Far fewer women have been prosecuted for acts of domestic violence, but the number of females convicted more than doubled with the relevant figure rising from 1,500 in 2005 to 4,000 in 2010. There can be no denying that, in the majority of circumstances, victims of domestic violence would be best advised to leave their partners and, should they be married to the perpetrator, commence divorce proceedings without hesitation. Unfortunately, whilst the myth that victims of domestic violence can leave their partner at any time is still frequently disseminated, leaving an abusive partner is often extremely dangerous and when the risk of physical harm is combined with the possibility of financial problems and concerns for children, many people find it difficult to find the courage to walk away from an abusive relationship. Before doing anything else, a person needs to recognise that they are the victim of domestic violence. It is important to point out that domestic violence is not only physical and that physiological abuse can be just as, if not more, damaging to an individual’s wellbeing. If you are unsure of whether or not your partner’s behaviour constitutes domestic abuse, then you can find a list of questions and advice on determining this at the Women’s Aid website. Once domestic violence has been established, you must understand that you are not to blame for the actions of your partner. Many victims of domestic violence have a tendency to blame themselves; you must reject such notions and realise that domestic abuse is inexcusable before you can even begin to plan escaping from your violent household. Finally – the most important step of all – get help. Contact your local police station and inform them of your situation, they will be more than happy to advise you on what options are available to you. You should also contact independent organisations such as the National Domestic Violence Helpline. Don’t forget to seek support from your friends, family and even your employers. Knowing that you have the help of these people and institutions can make a big difference in the long run. All in all, escaping from an abusive marriage is no easy task. Nevertheless, finding the courage and will to separate from and divorce an abusive partner will leave you free to once again enjoy life and pursue a rewarding and loving relationship.

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