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What’s the easiest way to divorce when you have children?

When you become a parent, your world changes in the most fundamental way imaginable. You’re no longer inclined to prioritise your needs above those of all others; any desire to be irresponsible melts into the ether; you become dedicated to one purpose and will prioritise it over all others: ensuring that your children are cared for and are always presented with the best opportunities possible. It’s for this very reason that, when parents decided to get divorced, they want to know how to protect their children from its potentially harmful effects. The first thing to note is that whilst you’ll no doubt want to know how the fact that you and your spouse have children will affect you divorce application, we can emphatically state that it will have no influence on the process at all. The courts previously asked that all divorce applications be submitted along with forms that specify the arrangements in place for any children under the age of 18, but this is no longer the case. Instead, couples are expected to agree arrangements between them or, if they are unable to do so, file a request for residence or contact accordingly (either of which would be completely separate from a divorce application). So, provided both spouses agree to the divorce, the easiest way for them to get a divorce is simply to use a service like Quickie Divorce. That said, there are a few things we think all divorcing parents should do in order to help their children cope with the changes the end of their marriage will bring: Tell them you’re getting divorced together When you tell your children that you’re getting divorced, you’re going to need to comfort them, let them know that their parents still love them and that you’ll both be there for them whenever they need you to be. For obvious reasons, they’re significantly less likely to feel reassured if you talk to them separately. Let them know your plans Letting your children know your plans regarding contact will help to allay a lot of their concerns. If nothing else, it’ll reinforce the fact that you still want them to have a relationship with both of you. If the children are old enough, you could instead involve them in the planning itself. By doing this, you’ll not only help create a plan that works around your children’s schedules, but by providing them with the opportunity to exert some control over their situation will also help allay any concerns they may have about the changes the divorce will bring. Remain approachable Your children are going to have questions and it’s important that you let them know that they can talk to you at any time as a result. As we all know, when our situation changes, we regularly think of things we’d like to know at the most random times so make sure you’re available whenever possible. Stay civil After your divorce has been finalised, you’ll still need to talk to your spouse from time-to-time. Make the effort to be civil (particularly when your children are around) and you’ll find that this relationship is not only easier to maintain but that your children are happier too. Got another question about divorce? Get in touch with our advisers today!
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