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‘What’s the easiest way to get a divorce?’ is another question we’re regularly asked her at Quickie Divorce. Considering that the end of a marriage invariably comes bundled up with the need to divide assets, make new living arrangements and, possibly, agreements for any children, it’s rarely something you’d describe as easy. Provided both you and your spouse have agreed to these matters and consent to the divorce, though, the legal process itself can be surprisingly straightforward.

Why no-fault divorce is best

Whilst it is still not technically possible to obtain a no-fault divorce in England or Wales, it is not necessary to apportion blame to either party when relying on either two or five-year separation. In each instance, all that will need to be mentioned in your divorce petition is your date of separation (the month and the year will do) and that you both consent to the divorce if you’re relying on two-year separation. In our experience, this means that the Respondent will nigh-on always complete and return the relevant paperwork and that the divorce process is both simple and swift.

You may find some articles suggesting that you should always rely on two-year separation if you both agree to the divorce even if you’ve been living separately for more than five years but this is inaccurate. Provided you and your spouse agree to the divorce and you’ve been living separately for the required period, you can use either ground and it will not affect your application.

The problem with other reasons

Relying on either unreasonable behaviour or adultery does not necessarily mean that your divorce will become protracted or complex (we actually help thousands of people utilise these grounds every year) but, as it’s necessary to apportion blame to one party, the reasons you provide can surprise and offend the Respondent, potentially leading them to withdraw their consent.

If you want to proceed with your divorce and need to use either of these grounds, we’d strongly recommend that you and your spouse get together and write your supporting information (where you’ll be required to provide more information on their adultery or unreasonable behaviour) together. If this is not practical, then correspond with one another via email until you’ve something you’re both happy with.

Communication is key

If you want a straightforward and relatively stress-free divorce, the most important thing that you can do is ensure that you maintain communication with your spouse. So, agree your reasons and particulars before filing your petition, let them know when it’s been filed and stay in touch throughout the process!

If you need help getting a divorce, call Quickie Divorce on 01656 508380 today.